AFAC: UNDERLINES AND SKETCHING
OVERVIEW OF LETTER AND POST Underlines Sketches Overview |
Conversions: Changes in How We Think About God, Ourselves, Others, World Religious: Baptism, Eucharist, Confirmation, Marriage, Anointing of the Sick, religious education, course, retreats. Role changes: Graduations, Degrees, Professions,
“Every moment and every event of every man’s life on earth plants something in his soul. Each moment brings with it germs of spiritual vitality. If these seeds would take root in my liberty, and if His will grow from my freedom, I would become the love that He is. and my harvest would be His glory and my own joy." first chapter from Thomas Merton, Seeds of Contemplation, available free on internet. |
My parents were best friends. When my father, a steelworker, was advised by his doctor to take up fishing as a hobby, my mother joined him. Together they built a cabin near Lake Pymatuning as well as creating a beautiful home and gardens. After I attained financial independence in graduate school, my parents became my best friends. I was a member of a mostly voluntary pastoral staff at a parish in Toledo in the 1980s. We asked ourselves "why we were Catholic?" My faith came from my parents more than from religious education or even my extensive theological reading and study. Their faith, hope, and charity became my faith, hope and charity. Even their virtues, especially mom’s compassion for others and my dad's deep respect for others, became my virtues although expressed in very different ways than they had expressed their virtues. The contemplative dimension of my mother's life especially her deep love of beauty was very evident very early. My father was less expressive. However, in the decade after mom's death, I came to appreciate the mindful way he worked and related to others. Although my mother has been dead for 30 years and my father for 20 years, they live on in me. Our family trinity of loving persons continues to guide and motivate my contemplative lifestyle ask well as care and service toward others. |