A Place for Grief
Why We Need Graveyards I have always enjoyed walking in cemeteries. They can be places of serenity where it is possible to escape the noise of everyday life. But when I strolled through Montparnasse Cemetery in 2019, it was not as refuge from the hectic pace of a trip to Paris. My visit was, instead, a kind of pilgrimage to the final resting place of many important writers, including Samuel Beckett, Charles Baudelaire, Simone de Beauvoir, and Jean-Paul Sartre. In the year since my wife died, I had not written a word and was hoping that being in the “presence” of such important literary figures might inspire me to sit down at my desk again. Walking down the narrow lanes of the cemetery, I stumbled upon the grave of Susan Sontag. Had I realized that Sontag was buried there, I certainly would have been looking for her grave, because I knew her work well. I had taught Illness as Metaphor and Regarding the Pain of Others, and had re-read her critique of conceptualizing cancer metaphori...